If you know there is a person who has been talking abt you behind your back, how shall you treat the person? Treat her nicely and pretend you dont know anything, or treat her with disrespect?

There's only 2 possibilities. Either what that person talked about us behind our back is true, or false. Maybe benda tu betul cuma kita tak sedar, atas prinsip Houlier Than Thou. Maybe juga, benda yg dia cakap tu salah.
However, the only thing that will affect you is, if what that person talked about you is true. Then, people will realize; "A'ah la betul la si polan tu cakap budak ni macam ni macam ni," Tapi, kalau benda yg dia cakap tu tak betul, kita takkan ter-efek. Sebab orang mesti akan fikir, "Eh, mana ada. Budak tu tak pernah la buat macam tu,". Coz the truth will always prevail.
Pasal nak treat tu. Layan biasa biasa je. Respect still kena ada. Cuma tak terlalu baik. Sebab dia mengumpat je pun. Bukan isytihar perang haha.

Tanya jangan tak tanya